First Date Ideas - Where to Go on a First Date

You asked her out and she said yes! Now, you have to plan a great first date so that you have a chance at a second one. Of course you could do the classic and overdone dinner and a movie, but you want to do something original. Need some great first date ideas that will keep the conversation flowing and ensure you have a wonderful time? Then read on for some fun first date ideas. Just remember to make your choice with the woman you will be going out with in mind.

• Bowling, pool, or miniature golf - These are old favorites that can make for a good first date since you are guaranteed to have fun. Both of you probably know how to bowl, play pool, or play put - put. If not, they are easy to learn. You can make jokes over the ball not going where you intended and laugh at how funny you look in rented shoes. You can have a great time relaxing, eating pizza, and drinking beer. Having down time to learn about each other as you play is an added bonus. Just remember to keep the competition friendly!


• Hiking or walking - If there are some great hiking spots where you live, and she is the outdoorsy or athletic type, a hike/walk could be perfect for you. If there are challenging areas to get through or over, this could encourage hand holding and bonding. Just make sure to take plenty of water with you and warn her to wear comfy clothing and shoes. If going for a walk seems like something your grandparents might do, think of it as a great way to find things to talk about instead. Each time you pass a plant, building, animal, etc., you have a new topic. Use your environment to your advantage and take a romantic stroll by the lake or beach or head over to a nearby park. You can also check out shops and events downtown.


• Aquarium or zoo - If there is one of these in your area, you could be in luck. Aquariums and zoos are relatively inexpensive and you can spend hours on end looking at the various animals. This can lead to some great conversation and it can also be a chance for you to hold hands and bond as you watch the jellyfish float by or the monkeys play. If you make a day of it, you can mix in a lunch date.


• Museums and art galleries - These are a great way to ensure that you will never run out of things to talk about. If you are into natural history or art, this could be a great way to show her what you know. The exhibits could spark some great conversation and really help you to get to know each other. Art is deep and you can show her that you are too!


• Live music or outdoor festivals - If you are both into live music this is a great option for your first date. You can sit and talk, listen to the music, and/or dance the night away. Jazz and blues clubs are also worth looking into since they often have open mic nights. That means you can enjoy a one of a kind saxophone or trumpet serenade. Live music will also give you something to talk about if you decide to grab some coffee or a bite to eat after.


• Comedy club - Here is a good first date idea that is like watching a movie, but funnier. This can be a great way to gauge each other's sense of humor and to get to know more about each other. Take notice of what she laughs at since this could be something to bring up later when there are no comedians around.


• Local events - Depending on where you live there may be several different events going on each month. Use these opportunities to get to know your city or town better, while you get to know her better. If she is new to the area, this is a great way to introduce her to it. With games, carnivals, food, and music, there will be something you can do around every corner. Local wine tastings are also a great idea, especially if you can teach her a little something about wine. Using your locale is always great for a good first date.


• Skating - Ice skating may only work for you if you live in the northern part of the country or you have an indoor rink around. Another option is inline or roller skating. Either way, it's a great way to show off your athletic prowess if you are a good skater. If she can't skate, you can hold her hand and teach her something new. She will thank you for the experience as long as you don't let her fall too much. Warning: this is a great first date idea as long as one of you can skate.


• Do - it - yourself picnic - This can be a great way to show off your cooking skills, if you have them. Picnics are a small and intimate twist on the typical dinner date. You can have a picnic at any time of the day. Just make sure you pick a spot in advance and check the weather. Major bonus if you can find a place with a view. A picnic can be a great first date idea if you plan ahead and make sure to keep food at the appropriate temperature.

Now that you have some good first date ideas, get out there and have some fun! You can also use some of these ideas for second or third dates. Save watching movies for when you already know each other since they do not allow for much conversation. Even a regular dinner date can be memorable if you are adventurous and try some new type of cuisine together.